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Hi,
I would like some tips or advice on my situation so i really hope you can help me out.
I can get enough girls but the girl i want seems to have lost interest, i think i were to Mr Needy and or Mr Nice to her and she lost her interest. When i really like someone i get probably way to nice and want to be with her al the time. And to girls i speak normally im just short in conversation and not really interested which attracts them somehow… how confusing! i just want to know if i can have a last shot at my ex girl to give our future some sparks.
I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago after 10 months of having a relationship. She told me that she gave 90% and i gave 100% and it is because of her and not because of me. she needed to solve/fix things in her life now. I said our roads wil split here then! and then she said that sounds so permanently! maybe you should go for your feelings, lets just be friends instead?
i agreed after several days because i really really love her.
I wrote her a handwritten letter after 2 months telling her i accept the breakup but that i would like to pickup what we have ended after this time so she could have the space she needed now.
She anwsered 1 day later by email that she said the 90% i gave is just not a good basic for a long term relationship and thats why i ended it. I hoped that it would have come for me aswell but it didnt so i had to pull the plug! i hope you will be happy and be loved aswell i am happy now and i don’t have to meet upto the expetations. ( maybe the time was not right yet? and im pushing to much because we kept having contact over the phone by texting and i spoke to her for like 3 times a week that i still miss us and that it is a hard time for me)
This sounds like she really gave up? and just want to be friends? i am really confused and still want her back! i told her after her email that i am going to delete her contact info from my phone so we wont have any contact for the time being, i left it on a note for future purpose. It is better for the both of us right now. She said that she agreed to it if thats what i want and whished me the best with everything.
She still wants to meet when she gets her own house because she is still living at her parrents. But i expect that my feelings will rise when i see her again and that i would suffer the same pain i had for like a month. She gave me the 10 best months of my life but also the worst month of my life.
Do you think its hopeless and i should move on instead? i carved her into my heart, friends are made between the ears but someone you love is carved in your heart and cannot be placed in the friendszone in my opinion.
Why does an Ex want to be friends anyway?
What should i do if theres a chance? and i deleted her number and ping contact on my blackberry which she knows. Its on a note stored away at home i told her. She still has my contact information i guess, should i wait for her to make contact or should i make contact. only 1 week went by after that, the actually breakup was 31 january after 10 months of happiness, never had fights and she said that aswell we always had fun and crazy moments. Went to paris together in december,.. did alot of things togheter. But only in the weekend, maybe just because she was living at her parents and has a private situation there. she wants to solve things on her own. She met my parrents but i never met her parrents, we had plans to visit her parrents but that was at the end of december. I think negative because she stated being friends in her email at my written letter response. But maybe when the time is right and is visit her new home to drink something. I heard i should only be there for not more then a hour the first time to show that i have moved on and wont make the friendszone impression to much.
For the time being im just going to life my live and go out and have fun. Go to the gym, swimming, work etc.
There are enough girls which are interested in me, but i don’t want them… it like i don’t want what is in my reach but i want something i need to work for. *sigh* Probably the same as my ex has.
Kind Regards,
Mart.
Hi Mart
thanks for your comment. Guys really struggle in particular with a break up because it’s really emotional and guys generally aren’t used to heartbreak and dealing with emotions – they’re told to be strong from a young age and not to show emotions.
You need to let go at this point and deal with your emotions and your feelings of desperation, you have no chance of getting her back or even someone else in the current emotional state you’re in.
Work on yourself is your first step
Karina