Sometimes when you lose someone that was right for you, you just can’t escape the feeling of that break-up. That kind of emotional damage leaves you changed, and not always for the better. You may have heard about ‘picking up the pieces’ of yourself after a lost relationship. Let’s ask the hard question, do you really want to just pick up the pieces? Or, do you want to be whole again?

Firstly, know the one you love. Know them well enough to know why they broke up with you, not why they said they did. Break-ups are done in an emotional state, and not just for the one on the receiving end. Don’t trust the words, trust the patterns. Know what bothered them. Listen, learn and remember.

Secondly, know yourself. If you truly want to get your ex back, it’s time to think about how you worked together, and how you didn’t. How can you engage them better? Fitting together is not just chemistry, its work, study and understanding. Don’t be afraid to experiment with new ways to make your lover happy, express a real interest in the things they like, and listen to them when something that you’re trying isn’t appealing to them. You can’t force togetherness, but you can guide it.

Finally, preparedness. The only difference between that sad walk through the rain and the love that survived all odds was determination, confidence, and knowledge. You have got to know what you want and say it clearly. You have got to be determined to set yourself to the task of loving them if you want to earn that love back, and you must have all the vital knowledge needed to mend a broken love.

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